October 8, 2004

Hey Piper,

I've been bisexual for two years now, but I like girls more than I do guys. Right now I really like this girl, but she never believes me because she says I never seem sincere. What should I do?

--BiMoreWayzDen1

Dear BiMoreWayzDen1,

Girl meets girl. Girl gets girl. If only it were that simple. Trust and sincerity don't happen overnight. If your intentions truly are heartfelt, I think time will tell. I wonder, however, how is it that you're communicating your feelings to your hard-to-get hottie? Are you saying and doing things that are boring and the norm? You know...complimenting her eyes...complimenting her clothes...buying her flowers. In other words, are you expressing your true feelings in ways that aren't true to your personality or character? This could be where the insincerity she accuses you of is stemming from. Be yourself. Express yourself as only you can. Use your own language, your own sense of humor or your own penchant for uber-romantic stuff. If all that fails you can go Cro-Magnon on her, club her over the head and drag her to your cave by her hair.

--Piper